Divorcing couples in New York are increasingly turning to mediation to reduce the cost and conflict involved in ending a marriage. Divorce mediation can help you discover the best solutions for the well-being of your family. However, despite the benefits of this process, mediation is unlikely to yield a positive outcome if both parties are unwilling to engage in constructive dialogue or engage in active listening. As such, it’s crucial to understand how you can communicate effectively with your spouse during mediation to enable you and your family to better move forward with life. Please continue reading as we share some vital tips for effective communication during divorce mediation and why connecting with our knowledgeable Suffolk County Divorce Mediation Attorneys is in your best interest.
Is Mediation Right For You?
If you and your spouse wish to avoid the pitfalls of litigation, including the cost, time spent, and the emotional toll, you may consider divorce mediation. This alternative dispute-resolution method involves you and your spouse meeting with a neutral third party to discuss and resolve any issues arising from your divorce, including alimony, child support, and the division of marital property. This process allows couples to resolve their issues, rather than having solutions imposed upon them by a judge. Additionally, it encourages both parties to have productive discussions to help avoid conflicts in the future. A mediator can make these sessions as non-adversarial as possible for optimum results. Before you can proceed with mediation, it’s important to consult an experienced attorney who can help you determine if this is the right divorce route for you given the unique circumstances of your situation.
How to Communicate with Your Spouse During Divorce Mediation?
When communicating with your spouse during mediation, you should be respectful. Avoid name-calling, sarcasm, belittling, or engaging in any other negative forms of communication. It’s important to put the past behind you and put your best foot forward to reach a mutually beneficial agreement. As such, you should practice active listening and maintain a composed demeanor. If you are feeling emotional, it’s ok to take a break and pick up the discussion later, once you have calmed down, rather than allowing your emotions to cloud your judgment. Stay focused on the issues at hand and take advantage of your mediator to find the solutions you are looking for.
If you are considering divorce mediation, please don’t hesitate to contact The Law Offices of Susan A. Kassel, P.C. for a consultation to discuss if mediation is right for you. Connect with our firm today to learn how we can help you fight for the best possible outcome for your divorce.
